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By Fr. David Barnes December 10, 2025
You may notice in our pew missals that on every Sunday and feast day, in addition to the Responsorial Psalm, there are three antiphons–Entrance, Offertory, and Communion–listed. Eventually we will move toward using these antiphons more frequently in our Masses. They are almost always passages from Scripture and they help us to enter into the Liturgy in a deeper way. The antiphons help us to think and to pray with the Church. They are not randomly chosen, but rather give a profound cohesiveness to our prayer and meditation. The antiphons are a marvelous treasury of spiritual nourishment and I encourage you each week to look them over as a way of entering into the Sacred Mysteries. A good example of this would be today’s Entrance Antiphon. The Third Sunday of Advent, which we celebrate today, is often referred to as, “Gaudete Sunday.” It is called that because the first word of today’s Entrance Antiphon is “Rejoice” (in Latin, “Gaudete”). It is taken from St. Paul’s Letter to the Philippians, is, “Rejoice in the Lord always; again, I say rejoice. Indeed, the Lord is near.” This antiphon is a key for unlocking the mysteries of today’s Liturgy. It also binds us all together. It binds us not only to one another here at St. Patrick Parish, but it binds us together with the whole Church throughout the ages. It binds us to all of salvation history, to the patriarchs, prophets, to all who longed for Christ, to the apostles, the saints, and to Christians in every time and place. One of the things that draws me to these antiphons is that they are for everyone. The antiphons are not chosen based upon how we feel or what we want to hear. They are given. Sometimes in life, we read things or listen to things depending upon our mood, right? In the Liturgy, it works the other way. The Liturgy indicates to us what our disposition should be. So, whether we arrived at Mass today in the mood for rejoicing or whether we arrived here feeling far from rejoicing, it does not matter. The antiphon is the same for all of us. It instructs us that all of us should rejoice. Does that mean that the Liturgy is telling us that by our sheer force of will we should rejoice despite how we might feel? No. The antiphon tells us precisely why we should rejoice. We should rejoice because the Lord is near. We should always rejoice. We should rejoice when things are all going well and we should rejoice when things are falling apart. Why? Because the Lord is near. We rejoice not because of our circumstances, but because the Lord is near to us. True rejoicing is always because of the nearness of the Lord. Does that mean that the Church’s liturgy is insensitive to people’s circumstances, sufferings, and pain? No! It’s the exact opposite. The Liturgy is saying, “You who are weighed down by many burdens, you can still rejoice because the Lord is near to you. He loves you. He is close to you. Circumstances and situations might be awful right now, but there is good news for you. The Lord is near to you.” This antiphon comes to us, in fact, during the darkest days of the year. It’s as though the Liturgy is reminding us that whatever darkness is present in our life, we can still rejoice because the Lord is close at hand. I want to say to anyone who reads these words today, but especially to those who are heavily burdened; to those who are suffering from illness, those weighed down by grief, depression, addiction, anxiety, marital problems, family problems; to those weighed down by the memory of past sins or the struggle with present sins; to those who feel alone; to those who feel as though they are a burden to others; to those who feel as though they are a disappointment or that their life has not turned out how they thought; to those who feel weak in faith and who are on the brink of despair; and especially to those who feel unloved: To all of you: Today is for you. Today you are free to rejoice because the Lord is near to you. He is always near to you. Are you still thinking that your situation precludes you from rejoicing? The Liturgy today is prepared for such a reaction. The Communion Antiphon is taken from the Lord’s words to the Prophet Isaiah: “Say to the faint of heart: Be strong and do not fear. Behold, our God will come, and he will save us.” God is speaking to you. Your Brother in Christ, Fr. David Barnes
By Fr. David Barnes December 3, 2025
A central, albeit mysterious, figure who appears especially during Advent is St. John the Baptist. He is the one who prepares the way for the Messiah. If John’s message were to be distilled into a single word, it would likely be, “Repent!” There is something in us that recoils from this call to “repent.” Perhaps our reluctance to respond positively to this term arises from the experience of seeing some angry person on a street corner shouting, “Repent!” Often enough, people who call us to repentance seem less interested in our well-being than they do in promoting their own sense of self-righteousness. While telling us to repent, they seem to separate themselves from the rest of us. It can feel as though they are suggesting that they themselves have no need of repentance. They convey a sense that they are fully prepared already and they are warning the rest of us. (But, even though they are warning us, you get the sense that they would much rather leave us in our unprepared state. They like giving warnings more than they actually want to help us.) John the Baptist appears as a sign. I think it is interesting that he appears in the desert. He is not on a street corner or in the main square. He is in the desert. He is where there is emptiness, dryness, and silence. He practices an ascetic life, wearing camel hair clothing and eating locusts. Unusual? Yes, but his witness attracts people. They come to see him. The people go out to the desert to see John and to hear him. Seeing his witness and hearing his message, what do they do? They acknowledge their sins and are baptized. They repent. John’s figure is so interesting to me. Clearly, his appearance must have been somewhat startling. Startling too was his message. Yet, people were drawn to him. They came to him and were moved to do something that is so difficult for us human beings. They admitted their faults. They admitted that they needed to change. They admitted they were wrong. They acknowledged their sins. This humble acknowledgement of sins and the desire to turn away from them is what prepares us to welcome the Lord. One of the greatest privileges of being a priest is to witness people repent of their sins. It is such an extraordinary thing to hear someone acknowledge that they, in fact, have sinned. I cannot tell you how moving it is to sit on the other side of the screen and listen to a person say things like, “I have been so arrogant. I have been so selfish. I have had such a hardened heart. I have been filled with hatred. I have committed lustful acts, been deceptive, or spiritually lazy.” When I hear those (and many other things), all I can think is, “Blessed Be God!” What an amazing work of grace must be happening in this person’s heart to make them able to do this courageous thing! Similarly, it is absolutely extraordinary to hear someone come to confess something that they have been carrying around for years, maybe even decades. As time goes on, they feel paralyzed from ever bringing this matter to confession. They think too much time has passed. Somehow, however, by God’s grace, they bring this matter to the confessional, and what happens? Does the roof of the church collapse? Does the priest die of shock? No, the Church rejoices and provides this brave and repentant soul with the medicine of mercy. John the Baptist is indeed a central figure of Advent. His appearance and his message are a bit startling. His appearance and his message are different. They do not seek center stage. He is not a social media influencer, a wielder of political power, or a TV personality. He appears outside the limelight, in the quiet of the desert. Somehow, people recognized that there was something true about his message. He was saying something that–even though difficult to hear–was necessary for their life. His call to repentance was authentic. The people went to him and acknowledged their sins. They prepared the way of the Lord. Dear Friends, this Advent, John the Baptist is once again appearing and calling to us from the solitude of the desert. His message is as true today as it was two thousand years ago. He does not only call us to repent, but he wants us to know that repentance is indeed possible. He is calling us to risk leaving the busy cities of our lives; the places that seem to offer us flashy solutions to our weary hearts. He is calling us to the place of repentance, to the quiet of the confessional where we can humbly acknowledge our sins, receive mercy, and to prepare a place for the Lord. In the next few weeks, there are innumerable opportunities to go to confession–here and elsewhere–and to experience that incredible joy that comes from repentance. Be courageous! And remember what the Gospel says today. All the people were going out to John and acknowledging their sins. You might think you’re the biggest and worst sinner in the whole world. If you do think that, “Blessed Be God!” That’s a sign of true sorrow and repentance. The rest of us who are standing in line with you, we are thinking the same thing about ourselves. And when we leave the confessional, we are no longer thinking of ourselves. We are thinking about the Lord and how kind and merciful He is. Your Brother in Christ, Fr. David Barnes
By Fr. David Barnes November 26, 2025
Each First Sunday of Advent, the Church begins a new liturgical year. At the same time that the new liturgical year begins, the cycle of readings also changes. The Church has three sets of Sunday readings. They are known as Year A, Year B, and Year C. We have just concluded Year C which draws primarily from the Gospel of Luke on Sundays. Year B draws most of its Sunday gospels from Mark, and the Sunday gospels for Year A, which we now begin, are most often from Matthew. St. John’s Gospel is interspersed throughout all three years. When I was a boy, it felt like my Mother was dragging us around Filene’s Basement and Jordan’s in Downtown Crossing all the time. We were always taking the Red Line into Town. This time of year in Downtown Boston was always magical to me as a child. The Salvation Army bell ringers seemed to be on every corner accompanied by their brass bands playing carols. Once a week or so, there would be one of the animated Christmas specials on television. You had one chance to see it all year and everyone in the school yard was talking about it for days before and on the day after. There was an amazing sense of anticipation. At school, we would light the Advent Wreath every day. (I don’t think any fire chief would have dared challenged the Sisters about that)! In the days before Christmas, we all went to Confession. At home, we had the Advent Calendar where every day we could open one window. The Nativity Scene that my Mom made in Ceramics Class would be set up, but no Baby Jesus until Christmas. Gradually, wrapped gifts would appear under the tree and we would beg our parents–to no avail–to open just one present early. Anticipation and waiting was on one level tortuous, but it was also amazing! Learning to anticipate, to long, to wait, and to live with expectation prepares us to experience true joy when what we long for is fulfilled. The heart needs to prepare itself to receive. And waiting is part of the preparation. When we wait with expectation, we experience greater joy when the object of our expectation arrives. As a child, I wanted my parents to short-circuit the “waiting” and let me open a present “NOW!” In a similar way, the culture attempts to short-circuit the waiting by celebrating Christmas weeks before Christmas. Instead of awaiting with anticipation the coming of something great, the culture tries to force things and manufacture joy. The Church–loving and wise mother that she is–teachers her children the valuable gift of waiting. This is what Advent is for us. The Church, by providing to us a season of waiting, helps us to experience true joy at Christmas. It is, as the Christmas hymn reminds us, a time for “every heart to prepare Him room.” The culture’s rush to celebrate Christmas early sucks the oxygen out of Christmas and deprives us of the opportunity to prepare ourselves for the joy that God wants to give to us. I hope that during these next few weeks, our St. Patrick Parish might provide a place for all of us to practice the great art of waiting and preparing. Some possible ways for you to do that? Come to daily Mass or to our Tuesday night Holy Hour. Join the Monday Night Advent Group, the Thursday Night Bible Study, or the Saturday morning Men’s Group. Go to Confession. For the stouthearted, we will also offer on Saturday, December 6th and 13th a 6:30am “Rorate Mass.” This Mass celebrated only by candlelight, begins before dawn. It recalls the coming of Christ, the Light, into the world and it honors the Blessed Virgin Mary. The term, “Rorate” is taken from the entrance antiphon of that Mass: “Rorate, caeli, desuper, et nubes pluant justum,” which means, “Drop down dew, ye heavens, from above, and let the clouds rain down the Just One.” IS 45:8). It is a beautiful chant that well expresses the heart’s longing for salvation. It will be a chanted Mass. Any of us who have ever sat under a Christmas Tree and shaken presents and tried to figure out what was inside knows that “waiting” is not a passive reality. True waiting is something we actually do. The anticipation prepares us to receive. God wants to give us all great graces at Christmas. The best way to prepare to receive those Christmas graces is to live now the beautiful graces of Advent. Your Brother in Christ, Fr. David Barnes
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Parish Office Holiday Hours


The Parish Office will closing at noon on December 23. We will be closed Christmas Eve, December 24 through December 26th. The office will also close at noon on December 31 for New Years and will re-open Monday, January 5, at 10:00 am. Wishing all our parishioners a blessed Christmas and a happy, healthy New Year.

St. Patrick Parish
Holy Hour with Mary


Tuesday nights during Advent

6:30 pm - 7:30 pm

In the lower church

Adoration, Reading, Reflection, Silent Prayer and Confession. All are welcome!


December 2nd ~ Mary, the Chosen Daughter of Israel

December 9th ~ Mary and the Annunciation

December 16th ~ The Visitation of Mary

December 23rd ~ Holy Mary, Mother of God


On Christmas, the collection will be to support the retirement, medical and financial needs of priests in good standing throughout the Archdiocese of Boston. On behalf of all of our priests, thank you in advance for your generosity. For more information, please visit www.clergytrust.org.

Saint Patrick Parish Men’s Group

Catholic Men

Iron sharpens Iron

Join your brothers for our next

St. Patrick Men’s Group series:

Men of Virtue

Join us Saturday mornings from 7:00-8:15 am


Confessions for Advent



6:30pm - 7:30pm

Lower Church


Monday, December 22, 2024

Tuesday, December 23, 2024


Christmas Mass Schedule

December 24, 2025 ~ Christmas Eve

4:00 pm ~ Upper Church

4:00 pm ~ Lower Church

4:00 pm ~ Our Lady’s Hall

10:00 pm ~ Upper Church

December 25, 2025 ~ Christmas Day

8:00 am ~ Upper Church

10:00 am ~ Upper Church

12 Noon ~ Upper Church

St. Patrick Grand Annual Update


Thank You! We are very grateful to the 316 parishioners and families who have thus far generously contributed $109,992. toward our goal of $130,000. The average family gift has been $348.


The Grand Annual—which is entirely for our St. Patrick Parish—is a necessary part of our yearly budget. Our goal is to have participation from 100% of our parish family!


All registered parishioners will have received the mailing from us. Please fill out the pledge card and return. If you are not registered but are part of our family, you can make a pledge by mailing a check payable to Saint Patrick Parish Grand Annual, to 71 Central St., Stoneham, MA 02180, sending a check from your online banking account or clicking on the "Give" button or using our QR code here.


We are so grateful for your generosity!


Important Note Regarding
Scheduling Memorial Masses


Memorial Masses may be scheduled for your loved ones by calling the parish office. You may choose a weekday or weekend Mass. Additionally, we offer a Communal Memorial Mass Saturday at noon, where several people will be prayed for together.


We recommend that you call the office well in advance of the particular date you would like to schedule.


Our large parish size means that dates fill up quickly. The Mass calendar for next year is available.

Support Group for those Experiencing Separation or Divorce

December Schedule Change


This group typically meets on the 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of each month beginning at 7:00 pm in the Youth Room on the Lower Level of the Parish Center. In December, there will be only one meeting, on Tuesday, December 9th. We will resume our regular schedule in January, meeting on January 13th and 27th.


For further information about the group, please contact Diane McCarthy at 781-438-0200 or dianemccarthy@stpatrickstoneham.org.


St Patrick Holiday Helpers


The Saint Patrick Holiday Helpers program is preparing for Christmas. During this season, the program strives to meet the needs of parish families with children who are in need, primarily providing toys and clothing. This program is successful in this mission through the generosity of our parishioners.


If you would like to adopt a family or donate to the Holiday Helpers program to help those who find themselves in need this Christmas season, monetary and gift card donations are welcome and very much appreciated. Checks can be made out to St. Patrick Family Ministry. Volunteers are also needed to shop and/or deliver the gifts. Please call 781-438-0960 the Parish Office if you would like to volunteer.


PRAYER OVER THE CRÈCHE


God of Mary and Joseph,

of shepherds and animals,

bless us whenever we gaze

on this manger scene.

Through all the days of Christmas

may these figures tell the story

of how humans, angels, and animals

found the Christ in this poor place.

Fill our house with hospitality, joy,

gentleness, and thanksgiving,

and guide our steps in the way of peace. Grant this

through Christ our Lord.

Amen.


ST.  PATRICK  PARISH  CHRISTMAS  EVE  CONCERT


The choir will be singing at the 10:00 pm Mass on Christmas Eve. The service will start with a mini concert at 9:30 pm followed by a sing-a-long of familiar Christmas carols.


Please join us.


BIBLE STUDY
Exploring the Gospels


Every Thursday

6:30 PM - 7:30 PM

St. Patrick Parish, Stoneham


"Ignorance of the Scripture is ignorance of Christ"
St. Jerome


Learn the Latest

  • Becoming Catholic / Adult Sacramental Prep

    Classes begin September 14, 2025


    OCIA, Order of Christian Initiation for Adults, (formerly known as RCIA) is a process by which adults come into our Roman Catholic Community. OCIA draws its model from the Acts of the Apostles whereby the early Church welcomed new members. What is more, OCIA is also open to persons already Catholic, but who may be interested in learning more about the richness of our faith.


    Is God inviting you or someone you know to take the next step in the journey of faith? All are welcome – those who are unbaptized, baptized in another faith tradition or baptized Catholic but haven’t yet received First Communion or Confirmation or just want to deepen their knowledge of the teachings of the Church. For further information, contact Diane McCarthy, 781-438-0200 or dianemccarthy@stpatrickstoneham.org.

  • Interested in getting more involved in St. Patrick Parish?

    We have so many wonderful ministries here at St. Patrick Parish. Maybe you feel called to look into one of them ~ Altar Society, Food Group, Prayer Shawl, Lector at weekend or daily Masses, Eucharistic Minister, Adult Choir, Pastoral Visitor, St. Vincent de Paul Society, Sacristan, just to name a few. Please contact the Parish Office at 781-438-0960 for more information.


    Also, for those who are unable to attend Mass, each weekend one Mass is recorded and then broadcast on Stoneham TV during the following week. Mass is aired on the Public Channel. (Public Access Channels: Comcast Ch. 9, RCN Ch. 3, Verizon Ch. 34) at the following times:


    Wednesday at 2:00 pm, Sunday at 9:00 am,

    Monday at 5:00 pm, Tuesday at 9:00 am.


    Each new cycle begins on Wednesday so the past Sunday's Mass will air for the first time on Wednesday.

  • Important Note Regarding Scheduling Memorial Masses

    Memorial Masses may be scheduled for your loved ones by calling the parish office. You may choose a weekday or weekend Mass. Additionally, we offer a Communal Memorial Mass Saturday at noon, where several people will be prayed for together.


    We recommend that you call the office well in advance of the particular date you would like to schedule.


    Our large parish size means that dates fill up quickly. The Mass calendar for next year is available.

  • Altar Flower Memorials for 2025 Masses

    Each weekend you have the opportunity to donate the weekend arrangement on the altar in memory of loved ones. The flower arrangement will be the one piece placed in front of the main altar. The name of your loved one will be placed in the bulletin for that weekend. The parish makes arrangements for the flowers. The donation is $75. Please call the parish office @ 781-438-0960 if you are interested in donating flowers for a particular weekend.


    Available weekends: June 29, July 27, Aug 17, 24 & 31, September 21 & 28, October 5 & 27, November 2 & 23.

  • Sanctuary Lamp and Bread and Wine Donations

    If you would like to sponsor the Sanctuary Lamp ($25) and or the Bread and Wine ($25) in honor of a loved one, please contact the office at 781-438-0960. The name of your loved one will be published in the bulletin.

  • Ushers Needed

    Ever considered getting more involved in the parish? We are in dire need of Ushers at the 12:00 PM Mass on Sundays.


    If you think you may be interested, please contact Diane McCarthy at 781-438-0200.


    Thank you for you consideration!

  • Thursdays with Jesus

    Note: Beginning June 19th, there will be no evening Mass


    We are excited for our New Testament Bible Study lead by Fr.Sijo. This is a wonderful opportunity for all of us to come together and deepen our understanding of God’s Word. Whether you are new to Bible study or have been reading Scripture for years, all are welcome to join. In this study, we will explore the life and teachings of Jesus Christ, the early Church, and the writings of the apostles, discovering how the New Testament shapes our faith and daily lives.


    This group will gather every Thursday at 6:30 pm for Bible study. Please feel free to invite friends, family, and anyone else who may be interested. We look forward to growing in faith together. God bless.


  • Separated and Divorced Support Group

    A group for people experiencing separation or divorce meets on the second and fourth Tuesdays of each month. The group focuses on the emotional, spiritual and practical aspects of separation and divorce. We will look at these topics through a Christian lens, taking note of the special considerations for Catholics, including the annulment process.


    The group meets from 7:00 PM to 8:30 PM in the Youth Room/Library on the lower level of the Parish Center. Please contact Diane McCarthy, Pastoral Associate and group facilitator, at 781-438-0200 or dianemccarthy@stpatrickstoneham.org for more information.


Sunday Mass Videos

Celebrate Sunday Mass on the Stoneham Public-TV channel (Comcast 9, RCN 3, Verizon 34) four times a week:

Sun: 9:00 AM ~ Mon: 5:00 PM ~ Tue: 9:00 AM ~ Wed: 2:00 PM
(Note: the televised Mass will be for the previous weekend)

 

Mass will be Recorded each weekend and available for viewing the following Wednesday. You can also stream the Mass from the St. Patrick's Parish Playlist. As new masses become available, they will be listed from newest to oldest. Daily Masses are also available on Catholic-TV.


Calendar of Events at Saint Patrick Parish

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7pm Rejoice! An Advent Pilgrimage

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6:30pm Holy Hour with Mary

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7pm The Chosen Christmas Special

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8:15am Women's Bible Study

6:30pm Thursday Evening with Jesus

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4pm Festival of Trees

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7am Men of Virtue

5pm Festival of Trees

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7pm Rejoice! An Advent Pilgrimage

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6:30pm Holy Hour with Mary

7pm Separated and Divorced Support Group

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8:15am Women's Bible Study

6:30pm Thursday Evening with Jesus

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6:30am Rorate Mass

7am Men of Virtue

9am Reflection and Prayer on Dilexi Te

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6:30pm SPYA Zoolights

7pm Rejoice! An Advent Pilgrimage

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6:30pm Holy Hour with Mary

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8:15am Women's Bible Study

6:30pm Thursday Evening with Jesus

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7am Men of Virtue

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7pm Rejoice! An Advent Pilgrimage

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6:30pm Holy Hour with Mary

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9:30pm Christmas Eve Concert

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6:30pm Thursday Evening with Jesus

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6pm Separated and Divorced Support Group

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6:30pm Thursday Evening with Jesus

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