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Pastor's Notes

By Fr. David Barnes March 11, 2026
I know that I use this column quite frequently simply to say, “Thank You,” but saying it is important. I am not going to list every person because I do not have the space, but generally speaking, I want to thank everybody who makes it possible for so many great things to be happening in this parish. Just this month alone there are so many things happening. All of which require the generosity and effort of many people. Each thing that happens in our parish happens because of the generosity and dedication of many people. Eighty young people were confirmed last week, six people will be baptized at the Easter Vigil, four others will be received into the Church, and a total of eleven will be confirmed. Our second graders at our parish school and in our religious education program will make their first confessions this month. There is the St. Patrick’s Day Party, various bible studies, Fr. Sijo’s Lenten day of retreat, the Saturday morning Men’s Group, the Tuesday Evening Holy Hours, two Lenten reflection groups, Irish Bread and Tea after the Noon Mass on St. Patrick’s Day, and next week the visit of Archbishop Henning for our Sunday Noon Mass with a reception following. And during the month of March, there will be approximately forty hours worth of Confessions heard. And, let’s not forget all of the everyday stuff like those who visit the hospital, assisted living facilities, nursing homes, and the homebound. There are those who dedicate themselves to prayer, those who offer their musical gifts to the parish, and those who assist us in various capacities for our Liturgical life, mentor our youth, and serve the poor. I’m sure there are others. It is a lot. And all of that happens because so many people pour themselves out for the sake of everyone else. We can do a lot because we have parishioners and staff who are selfless. Thank you for that! I hope that many of you will be able to join us next Sunday for Mass with the Archbishop and the reception afterwards. It would be great for you to meet the Archbishop and for him to meet all of you. Please keep in your prayers those who will receive the Sacraments of Initiation–Baptism, Confirmation, and First Eucharist–this Easter. I think it is so encouraging to have so many folks coming into the Church at our parish this year. So beautiful. In a parish our size sometimes certain things can slip through the cracks. One thing that we cannot let slip through the cracks is our duty to safeguard the Most Blessed Sacrament. We have many persons who bring the Eucharist to the sick and homebound. In order to make certain that the Eucharist is being properly cared for, there will be a mandatory meeting on April 13th. If you are someone who brings communion to the sick and homebound, you must attend one of these two sessions. I have an obligation to make certain that the greatest care is given to the Most Blessed Sacrament. Thank you for your understanding. Thank you to all who have contributed to the Catholic Appeal thus far. If you have not yet donated, please make a pledge and be sure to put St. Patrick Parish Stoneham as your parish on the pledge form. This is how the Archdiocese will know to credit it towards our parish goal. Again, thank you! Your Brother in Christ, Fr. David Barnes
By Fr. David Barnes March 4, 2026
On Sunday March 22nd, Archbishop Henning will be coming to St. Patrick Parish to offer the Noon Mass and will join us for a reception afterwards. His office called several months ago and expressed the Archbishop’s desire to visit us and celebrate Mass with us. Archbishop Henning is our shepherd and he desires to know us and it would be good for us also to know him. Please make an effort to join us that day for the Noon Mass. This weekend begins the Catholic Appeal. I will speak briefly at all of the Masses asking you to join me in supporting this important effort. The Catholic Appeal provides support for Archdiocesan ministries that provide invaluable support to all parishes throughout the Archdiocese. Every parish in the Archdiocese is required to meet its goal. I would be grateful if we could meet our goal quickly! Please make your pledge today. Before asking you to make your pledge, I have already made my donation. Please join me. For the next several Sundays the Gospel passages we hear will come from the Gospel of St. John. They are lengthy passages that are extraordinarily beautiful and deeply moving. These scenes from our Lord’s life really help us to encounter the Lord in a more profound way. If we take the time to pray with these passages during the week, we cannot help but be drawn more closely with the Lord. We will not simply hear these accounts read to us. We enter into these encounters. This week we are there when Jesus encounters the woman at the well. Next week we enter into the encounter of Jesus with the man who was born blind. The week after that, we stand with Martha and Mary and all the others who were there when Jesus raised Lazarus from the dead. Although each one of these Gospel accounts is filled with innumerable points of meditation, today I want to mention just a single theme that runs through all of them. In each of these encounters the person encountering Christ seems to be in an impossible situation. The obstacle to happiness seems insurmountable. The woman at the well was immersed in a life of sin and infidelity. Her shame was great. She was an outcast and seems to have thrown herself ever more deeply into sin. The man born blind suffered not only from his physical impairment, but also from the judgement of others who presumed his affliction was a punishment from God. And Lazarus, well, he confronted the greatest obstacle of all, death itself. Into each one of these situations, Christ entered in and set the person free; the woman at the well from sin and shame, the man born blind from his affliction, and Lazarus from death. This is who Christ is. He saves. He rescues. He has power to overcome what appear to be definitive obstacles to happiness. I know that I speak and write often about the Sacrament of Confession. That is not to place a burden upon you. It is just the opposite. It is because in this great Sacrament, the Lord enters into what seems an impossible situation and he sets us free. The same Jesus who entered into the lives of these suffering people in the Gospels, he is the same Jesus whom we encounter in the Sacraments. We can be free. Freedom is not trying to ignore or suppress our past sins. If you have any conscience at all, these things will always resurface. Past sins tend to blackmail us. They whisper to us that we will always be the person that did “such and such.” Present sins paralyze us and blind us to the love of God. Since they are freshly committed, we are tempted to wait until “some future time” to confess them so that we can feel better when we say, “Well, that was not recently.” (The problem is that when the future comes, we are still ashamed and, in the meantime, we only grow worse.) These obstacles stand in the way of moving forward in our life. Does Jesus want this for us? Absolutely not! Just as he entered the lives of those three individuals and set them free, so Jesus–our Good Jesus–seeks to enter our lives and set us free. The whisper that your past sins are a permanent disqualification from a life of grace is a lie. The whisper that your sins are an insurmountable obstacle that defines your worth is a lie. All lies. In the confessional, we encounter the gentle Jesus. In the confessional, we encounter the Jesus who overcomes the shame, the blindness, and the death that sin always brings. In the confessional, we encounter the Christ who lifts up, who gives sight, and who restores life. No sin has more power than Christ. In this Season of Lent, I encourage all of us to have recourse to this great Sacrament. Jesus loves you and desires that every obstacle in your life be removed by Him so that you can be free. He is Lord. He can do it. Your Brother in Christ, Fr. David Barnes
By Fr. David Barnes February 26, 2026
I think we will run a betting pool to see what date the last mounds of snow around the church will melt. I’m thinking the prime spots will be around the Fourth of July. Speaking of the snow, I want to acknowledge and thank our dedicated maintenance team for the long hours and hard work they’ve put in this winter. Even as the blizzard was in full force, they were suited up for battle and getting our property cleared of snow. I am very grateful for their amazing work. This past week, as I was preparing for our Finance Council meeting, I was thinking about how grateful I am to be your parish priest. You all make it easy and a joy to serve here. It can sometimes be a drain for priests when they offer things for their parishioners and receive little or no response. It can be disheartening. You, however, are always responsive. When various opportunities for formation–holy hours, bible studies, men’s group, book studies etc.–are offered, you show up. I often bring a book with me for when I am hearing confessions, but I never get to read it. We offer confessions and so many people take advantage of it! We ask for food for the poor and you bring it. We mention that Catholic patients in the hospital are in need of the Eucharist, and you respond. In a similar vein, I am grateful that you possess a strong sense of fiscal responsibility for the parish. Over the past few years, each year the weekly offertory collection has increased. Unfortunately, that is not the case in every parish. For a long time, Catholics felt like all they needed to do was “throw a buck” in the collection. That general attitude has persisted in many parishes. People often think of the weekly offertory as “giving what I happen to have in my pocket” on a particular Sunday. That lack of intentionality and lack of a sense of responsibility has destabilized many Catholic parishes. There seems to be a never-ending list of necessary maintenance issues to be addressed on our buildings and properties. Those issues are immediately obvious to us. If the heat, the sound system, or the air conditioning isn’t working, we notice. When the roof leaks, we notice. Those are kind of the “body” of the parish. At the same time, we have to tend to the soul of the parish. These needs are not always quite as obvious, but they are even more urgent. They are about making it possible for as many people as possible to encounter Jesus Christ, especially in the Sacraments and in His Word. This happens through our life together as a parish family. Everybody needs Jesus Christ, whether they know it or not. Everything we do as a parish is ultimately aimed at helping people to come to know, love, and follow the Lord. That is why we have daily confessions, more daily Masses during Lent, and so many opportunities to gather together for formation and friendship. This year, I was particularly moved by the vast crowds who filled our church on Ash Wednesday. I know people sometimes dismiss the once a year people as being insincere, I honestly am amazed by their presence. In a culture that has become so secular and de-Christianized, I think it is an amazing work of grace that so many people are still drawn to church on that day to be told they need to repent. Deep down, they know it is true. That, I think, is why they come. One of my goals as pastor is to find ways to reach those kinds of people; people who are not often here, but who are open to the Gospel. Our attempt to build up our parish is not only for those who are already here. It is also so that those who are looking for something find it here. I know that sometimes priests can feel as though the burden for all these things is entirely upon them. I am very grateful to all of you because I do not feel that way. I feel like all of us are working together–each in his or her own way–to build up our parish and help others to encounter Jesus Christ. This mission that is given to all of us–in different ways–by Jesus Christ becomes a joyful burden. This was a long-winded way of saying, “Thank you for making this a great place to be a priest.” Your Brother in Christ, Fr. David Barnes
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The 2026 Catholic Appeal officially launched the weekend of March 7 & 8th.

One of the most meaningful ways that we witness the presence of Christ and deepen the impact of our Church’s ministries is by supporting the Catholic Appeal. As your pastor, I invite you to prayerfully consider extending your generosity to this year’s appeal. When our parish reaches its goal of $85,998, a portion of the additional funds received will be returned to us for use in our parish.


If paying by check please write #360 in the memo line so our Parish gets credit for your donation.


To make a gift online, please be sure to select our Parish’s name and Town under “Choose Parish”


Visit—https://bostoncatholicappeal.org/donate25-01/.


Next weekend, the 2026 Catholic Appeal will officially launch here at Saint Patrick parish and across our Archdiocese. As your pastor, I hope and encourage you to join me in making a gift to this year’s Catholic Appeal.  As a parish, our participation in the Catholic Appeal signifies an important way that we can share Christ’s promise, care, and love with others. For those who have already made a gift, please know that I am deeply grateful.


To make an online gift, please visit: www.bostoncatholicappeal.org.

A Message from Archbishop Henning


Special Visit from Archbishop Henning


We are honored to announce that His Excellency, The Most Reverend Richard G. Henning, Archbishop of Boston, will be celebrating the 12 Noon Mass on Sunday, March 22nd


Reception to follow

The Society of St. Vincent de Paul would like to thank the St. Patrick Religious Education Staff and Students for organizing, drawing colorful signs and collecting all the donations during the Souper Bowl Food Drive. We are so grateful for the generosity from the St. Patrick's parishioners. God bless you all.

Please, please, please!!


Our neighbors at 286 Main St. (Ski & Sport Shack) have kindly & respectfully asked if our parishioners could not park in their lot. They are trying to make a living and need their parking lot. They’ve tried signs, flyers on the windshield, etc.


Please be courteous and do not park there for Mass. In the future they will tow.

CONGRATULATIONS

to our young men & women who received the

Sacrament of Confirmation on March 7, 2026

See the Confirmands List

2026 Cash Calendar Winners

(best viewed on tablet or computer)

See the Winners List

LENTEN OPPORTUNITIES


Mass Schedule

Daily Mass 12 Noon Monday ~ Saturday

Evening Mass 6:00 pm Monday ~ Friday


Sacrament of Reconciliation

Monday ~ Friday 11:20 & 11:50 am before Noon Mass and 5:20 - 5:50 pm before the 6:00 pm Mass

Saturdays 3:00 ~ 3:45 pm


Learn to Pray Holy Hours

Tuesday Evenings ~ Lower Church

6:30 ~ 7:30 pm


Stations of the Cross

Friday Evenings immediately following

6:00 pm Mass



Stations of the Cross


Please join us to pray the Stations of the Cross on the Fridays of Lent at 6:30 pm in the lower church:

February 20 & 27

March 6, 13, 20, 27


Good Friday, 12:00 Noon upper church

Please note; we will once again be offering a 6:00pm daily Mass during Lent. Those masses will be open for Memorial opportunities as well as the daily Mass. Please call the office for available dates.

Easter Flower Memorials


Once again we would like to give you the opportunity to share in the decoration of our Church and Altar this Easter. Contributions in memory of loved ones will be accepted until March 16th.


Donations can be mailed, brought to the Parish Office or placed in the collection baskets with the names of those who you wish to be listed in the Easter Bulletin.


The

CHOSEN

SEASON THREE DATES:

1/26, 2/2, 2/9, 2/23, 3/2, 3/9, 3/16, 3/23, 3/30 & 4/13


WHEN:  Monday evenings

TIME:  7:00 pm

WHERE:  St. Patrick Parish

STEAM  Room, Lower Level


ALL ARE WELCOME!


For more information, please contact the Parish Office at 781-438-0960

BIBLE STUDY
Exploring the Gospels


Every Thursday

6:30 PM - 7:30 PM

St. Patrick Parish, Stoneham


"Ignorance of the Scripture is ignorance of Christ"
St. Jerome


Learn the Latest

  • Lectors Needed

    We are seeking volunteers to serve as Lectors at the daily and weekend Masses. Lectors have the sacred privilege of proclaiming Scripture, helping to bring God’s Word to life for the community.


    If you have a clear speaking voice, a desire to deepen your appreciation of Scripture, and a willingness to serve, please contact Diane McCarthy at dianemccarthy@stpatrickstoneham.org or 781-438-0200.

  • Becoming Catholic / Adult Sacramental Prep

    Classes begin September 14, 2025


    OCIA, Order of Christian Initiation for Adults, (formerly known as RCIA) is a process by which adults come into our Roman Catholic Community. OCIA draws its model from the Acts of the Apostles whereby the early Church welcomed new members. What is more, OCIA is also open to persons already Catholic, but who may be interested in learning more about the richness of our faith.


    Is God inviting you or someone you know to take the next step in the journey of faith? All are welcome – those who are unbaptized, baptized in another faith tradition or baptized Catholic but haven’t yet received First Communion or Confirmation or just want to deepen their knowledge of the teachings of the Church. For further information, contact Diane McCarthy, 781-438-0200 or dianemccarthy@stpatrickstoneham.org.

  • Interested in getting more involved in St. Patrick Parish?

    We have so many wonderful ministries here at St. Patrick Parish. Maybe you feel called to look into one of them ~ Altar Society, Food Group, Prayer Shawl, Lector at weekend or daily Masses, Eucharistic Minister, Adult Choir, Pastoral Visitor, St. Vincent de Paul Society, Sacristan, just to name a few. Please contact the Parish Office at 781-438-0960 for more information.


    Also, for those who are unable to attend Mass, each weekend one Mass is recorded and then broadcast on Stoneham TV during the following week. Mass is aired on the Public Channel. (Public Access Channels: Comcast Ch. 9, RCN Ch. 3, Verizon Ch. 34) at the following times:


    Wednesday at 2:00 pm, Sunday at 9:00 am,

    Monday at 5:00 pm, Tuesday at 9:00 am.


    Each new cycle begins on Wednesday so the past Sunday's Mass will air for the first time on Wednesday.

  • Important Note Regarding Scheduling Memorial Masses

    Memorial Masses may be scheduled for your loved ones by calling the parish office. You may choose a weekday or weekend Mass. Additionally, we offer a Communal Memorial Mass Saturday at noon, where several people will be prayed for together.


    We recommend that you call the office well in advance of the particular date you would like to schedule.


    Our large parish size means that dates fill up quickly. The Mass calendar for next year is available.

  • Altar Flower Memorials for 2025 Masses

    Each weekend you have the opportunity to donate the weekend arrangement on the altar in memory of loved ones. The flower arrangement will be the one piece placed in front of the main altar. The name of your loved one will be placed in the bulletin for that weekend. The parish makes arrangements for the flowers. The donation is $75. Please call the parish office @ 781-438-0960 if you are interested in donating flowers for a particular weekend.


    Available weekends: June 29, July 27, Aug 17, 24 & 31, September 21 & 28, October 5 & 27, November 2 & 23.

  • Sanctuary Lamp and Bread and Wine Donations

    If you would like to sponsor the Sanctuary Lamp ($25) and or the Bread and Wine ($25) in honor of a loved one, please contact the office at 781-438-0960. The name of your loved one will be published in the bulletin.

  • Ushers Needed

    Ever considered getting more involved in the parish? We are in dire need of Ushers at the 12:00 PM Mass on Sundays.


    If you think you may be interested, please contact Diane McCarthy at 781-438-0200.


    Thank you for you consideration!

  • Saint Patrick Parish Men’s Group

    Catholic Men

    Iron sharpens Iron

    Join your brothers for our next

    St. Patrick Men’s Group series:


    Men of  Virtue


    Join us Saturday mornings from 7:00-8:15 am

  • Thursdays with Jesus

    We are excited for our New Testament Bible Study lead by Fr.Sijo. This is a wonderful opportunity for all of us to come together and deepen our understanding of God’s Word. Whether you are new to Bible study or have been reading Scripture for years, all are welcome to join. In this study, we will explore the life and teachings of Jesus Christ, the early Church, and the writings of the apostles, discovering how the New Testament shapes our faith and daily lives.


    This group will gather every Thursday at 6:30 pm for Bible study. Please feel free to invite friends, family, and anyone else who may be interested. We look forward to growing in faith together. God bless.


  • Separated and Divorced Support Group

    A group for people experiencing separation or divorce meets on the second and fourth Tuesdays of each month. The group focuses on the emotional, spiritual and practical aspects of separation and divorce. We will look at these topics through a Christian lens, taking note of the special considerations for Catholics, including the annulment process.


    The group meets from 7:00 PM to 8:30 PM in the Youth Room/Library on the lower level of the Parish Center. Please contact Diane McCarthy, Pastoral Associate and group facilitator, at 781-438-0200 or dianemccarthy@stpatrickstoneham.org for more information.


Sunday Mass Videos

Celebrate Sunday Mass on the Stoneham Public-TV channel (Comcast 9, RCN 3, Verizon 34) four times a week:

Sun: 9:00 AM ~ Mon: 5:00 PM ~ Tue: 9:00 AM ~ Wed: 2:00 PM
(Note: the televised Mass will be for the previous weekend)

 

Mass will be Recorded each weekend and available for viewing the following Wednesday. You can also stream the Mass from the St. Patrick's Parish Playlist. As new masses become available, they will be listed from newest to oldest. Daily Masses are also available on Catholic-TV.


Calendar of Events at Saint Patrick Parish

Sun
Mon
Tue
Wed
Thu
Fri
Sat

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12:35pm Lenten Study - Witness with Fr. Harrington

7pm The Chosen Season 3

3

6:30pm Monthly Grief Support Group

6:30pm Learn to Pray Holy Hours

4

7pm Lenten Study - Witness with Diane McCarthy

5

6:30pm Thursday Evening with Jesus

6

6:30pm Stations of the Cross

7

7am Men of Virtue

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9

12:35pm Lenten Study - Witness with Fr. Harrington

7pm The Chosen Season 3

10

6:30pm Learn to Pray Holy Hours

7pm Separated and Divorced Support Group

11

7pm Lenten Study - Witness with Diane McCarthy

12

6:30pm Thursday Evening with Jesus

13

6:30pm Stations of the Cross

14

7am Men of Virtue

5:30pm Saint Patrick's Day Gala

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16

12:35pm Lenten Study - Witness with Fr. Harrington

7pm The Chosen Season 3

17

6:30pm Learn to Pray Holy Hours

18

7pm Lenten Study - Witness with Diane McCarthy

19

6:30pm Thursday Evening with Jesus

20

6:30pm Stations of the Cross

21

7am Men of Virtue

9am Return to Love

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23

12:35pm Lenten Study - Witness with Fr. Harrington

7pm The Chosen Season 3

24

6:30pm Learn to Pray Holy Hours

25

7pm Lenten Study - Witness with Diane McCarthy

26

6:30pm Thursday Evening with Jesus

27

6:30pm Stations of the Cross

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7am Men of Virtue

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30

12:35pm Lenten Study - Witness with Fr. Harrington

7pm The Chosen Season 3

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6:30pm Learn to Pray Holy Hours

7pm Separated and Divorced Support Group

1

7pm Lenten Study - Witness with Diane McCarthy

2

6:30pm Thursday Evening with Jesus

3

12pm Stations of the Cross

4

7am Men of Virtue


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