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By Fr. David Barnes November 19, 2025
This weekend at the Ten o’clock Mass, we will celebrate the Rite of Acceptance and Welcoming. Some of these men and women are preparing for Baptism, Confirmation, and First Eucharist at Easter. Others who were previously baptized are seeking admission into the Catholic Church, Confirmation, and First Eucharist. Still others who were baptized as Catholics are preparing for Confirmation. They meet every Sunday morning with Diane McCarthy–our Pastoral Associate–and her team. That team does the hard work each week of helping to teach and form these men and women. I will have the privilege of baptizing, confirming, and administering the Eucharist to them. The desire to belong is present in every human heart. In our present moment in time, one way that this desire is expressed is through social media. Many people spend enormous amounts of time scrolling, posting, liking, and seeking out “likes.” There can be an almost frenetic frenzy in the online world. And yet, it seems that this online world only deepens a sense of loneliness, isolation, and emptiness in people’s lives. The algorithms seem designed to isolate us into ghettoes of echo-chambers where we are exposed only to what our masters think we want to hear. Controversies are constantly being contrived in order to keep us contained in a never-ending circle of anger, bitterness, and antagonism. What begins as a desire to have contact with others can devolve into a race to the bottom of nothingness. Many people set out online in search of some human contact or some shared experience. Of course, the online world offers many positive things. There is, however, as we all know, a dark side to it. The search for belonging in a virtual world can become a ruinous journey. Addictive gambling, online shopping, online gaming, pornography, hatred, and anger all portend to offer the human person a way to feel better, but they all leave the person more alone and empty. The bets get bigger, the UPS truck arrives more frequently, the need to get to the next level keeps people awake all night, the pornography gets more grotesque, the hatred and anger become all-consuming. In a world where the chemical rush of dopamine is a click away, people are becoming increasingly isolated. Despite all of that, a recent study of Catholics discovered that what most people are looking for in a parish is authentic community and meaningful relationships. (There are other factors also like more traditional forms of worship, good sermons, and the Sacraments.) At the top of the list, however, was authentic community and meaningful relationships. Of course, in a Catholic context, authentic community and meaningful relationships will always arise from and lead to authentic community and meaningful relationship with God himself. And, of course, the Sacraments are all about drawing us into life-giving communion. While I was a college chaplain, I was impressed by the evangelical genius of the young people there. At Sunday Mass, for instance, they would notice someone sitting alone. They’d go and introduce themselves to that person. They’d say, “Hey, a group of us are going to the dining hall after Mass for breakfast if you’d like to come.” And, one by one, that’s how community and meaningful relationships get built. The men and women who today will be accepted and welcomed are here because they desire to belong. That belonging is a life-long and ever-deepening reality. For all of us too, we don’t belong simply because we filled out a registration card somewhere along the way. Belonging is something we cultivate and continuously deepen. As a parish, I hope that we are continuously drawing others into authentic community and meaningful relationships. That’s what people are looking for. That’s what we are all looking for. Let’s be serious and intentional about making it happen. Your Brother in Christ, Fr. David Barnes
By Fr. David Barnes November 12, 2025
A few weeks ago, our office received a phone call from a man who had been a parishioner here, but who had recently moved across the country. He was calling to let us know that he would be making a donation to the parish. The donation, a generous sum, was being given because he was grateful for how the Lord had worked in his life here at St. Patrick Parish. I was really touched by that. That young man’s donation–given after he had moved away–was a sign of his deep connection to this community. He not only received something from this parish, but he also wants to be part of the building up of this community. Many who work in the Church have noted the nomadic nature of many young adults in terms of their commitment to a particular community. Sometimes, newer generations wander from place to place, but never seem to belong to any one community. They go to this young adult group on Mondays, that one on Tuesdays, adoration to another parish on Thursdays etc. All of which is great, but they do not always have a sense that being part of a community involves contributing to the life of that particular place. There are electric bills, heating bills, employees, roofs, HVACS etc. And, there are always things that need to be done in the life of the parish. For example, if you want a young adult community, don’t just go and try to find one somewhere else, but rather build one where you are. I am grateful that in our parish there are many people–young and old–who are neither spectators nor consumers. They are participants and givers. Some offer their services in very quiet ways–like cleaning the sanctuary, tending to all of our altar linens, assisting in the handling of the weekly collection, setting up and cleaning up after each Mass etc. They are hidden from view, but they give time each week to building up our parish. Others are dedicated to a more public ministry, bringing communion to the ill, teaching and mentoring our young people, assisting in serving the poor, serving in various capacities in our Liturgical life, serving on various committees, leading small faith groups, and organizing various events. It is deeply edifying to me, for instance, to walk into our confirmation preparation program and to see such wonderful role models of the Faith who generously pour themselves out for the youth of the parish. When I see those people, I have hope for the future. They are continuing to do what so many parishioners of this parish have done over the years: Give of themselves. That kind of generosity is what strengthens us as a parish. On a more nuts and bolts level, I want to encourage everyone, if you haven’t already, to contribute to our Grand Annual! The Grand Annual supports our operating budget and supports the many aspects of our life together. I made my donation to the Grand Annual because I am grateful for our life together and because I want many others to enjoy a strong, healthy, and faith-filled parish. I encourage everyone who belongs to St. Patrick Parish to join us in advancing our mission. I do not know if the man who moved away and made that donation ever checks out the bulletin online, but if he does, I want him to know that his generosity and example are deeply appreciated. His good example serves as an inspiration to me and I hope to others. Your Brother in Christ, Fr. David Barnes
By Fr. David Barnes November 5, 2025
On November 1st the Church celebrates the Solemnity of All Saints and on the next day, the Feast of All Souls. In doing so, we are immediately reminded that the Church is “bigger” than St. Patrick Parish. Our parish is part of the Archdiocese of Boston and the Archdiocese of Boston is part of the Universal Church. The Church herself, however, is “bigger” than the world in which we inhabit. The Church also exists in Heaven where the saints–those holy men and women throughout the centuries–now live in beatitude. The Church also exists in Purgatory. In that place, those brothers and sisters of ours who left this world in the state of grace but needing further purification are preparing for Heaven. By praying for them and offering sacrifices for them, we help them on their way to Heaven. In return, they will pray for us and help us on our pilgrimage. We are one with all of them. These two feasts assist us in remembering that we are all in this together. We are given to one another to help each other on the path to the Beatific Vision. I sometimes like to imagine the saints looking down at us as though we were running a race and they are cheering us on and encouraging us. “Don’t give up! We did it and you can too! The race is worth running! The prize is too good to surrender!” Not only do they cheer us on, but they assist us with their prayers. We also do that for the souls in Purgatory. These souls are those who will indeed make it to Heaven, but when they died they were not yet ready to see God face to face. In God’s mercy, He provides to them a place of purification. Our prayers, Masses, and sacrifices assist them in this process. The most loving thing we can do for those who have died is to dedicate ourselves to assisting them. The souls in Heaven and in Purgatory have passed beyond our sight. Some of them we can imagine, recall from memory, or come to know through our study of their lives, but we cannot look upon them with our eyes. They are very much, however, part of our life as Catholics. They are part, in a sense, of the invisible Church. I recall many years ago, while doing training with the Navy, we had a Marine Corps Gunnery Sergeant as our instructor. One day, we went on a run that felt like it would never end. While the rest of us were just trying not to die, he would run ahead to the front of the pack and give instructions as to where they needed to turn etc. Then, he’d run all the way back and encourage everyone along the way. He’d give helpful hints, dance around you in circles and say all sorts of funny things, and would menacingly add, “Don’t you dare quit.” That was thirty years ago and I remember it like yesterday. He was good at his job. He was good at getting people to give their all and their best. That experience has always been for me an image of the Church and us together. We are all here helping one another finish the race. Some are quicker and some are struggling along, but we are meant to help one another and encourage one another. This past week, I was encouraged by many examples. Let me share a few: While bringing the Sacraments to the home of two of our very faithful parishioners, I noticed a plaque on their wall with a blessing from the Pope on the occasion of their Wedding. The Pope? Pius XII who died the year they were married, 1958! They just celebrated their 67th Anniversary. Am I encouraged by their example? Absolutely. Two Sundays ago, while I was distributing Holy Communion, I was struck by how many young people in their twenties and thirties were at the Noon Mass. Am I encouraged by them? Absolutely. Who else? People who work from home and use their lunch hour to come to the Noon Mass. The twenty guys of all ages who showed up at 7am for Men’s Group. For the mentors in our Youth Ministry. For the parents whose children serve at our Masses. For the people who are so committed to the formation of our young people in religious education. For the example of our teachers and administrators at St. Patrick School who have been doing amazing work to bring Christ to the children there. For the St. Vincent DePaul Society members and for the St. Patrick Parish Food Group who tirelessly labor on behalf of God’s poor. For those who are in our parish who are preparing to enter into the Catholic Church at Easter and for those who assist them in this process. For the parishioners who participate each week in various small prayer groups or who participate in one of our bible studies. For the people who come to Confession. I cannot tell you how beautiful it is as a priest to hear so many confessions each week. One more: This past Monday, as I was greeting students and parents at school drop-off, one little boy walked towards me with a huge smile on his face. I said, “Wow, you look happy!” His Mother said, “Tell him why.” The boy replied with great excitement, “We are going to Mass today!” Encouraging!! There are many other examples. My point is simply this: Your fidelity and witness are for me like that crazy Marine Gunnery Sergeant running all over the place. Your example of fidelity is inspiring and it encourages me. I thank you for that. (Lastly, on a side note, last week I joked about adding a 4:30am Mass and some folks thought I was serious. For the record, there is no 4:30am Mass coming our way)! Your Brother in Christ, Fr. David Barnes
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Reflection and Prayer on Dilexi Te

The first Apostolic Exhortation of Pope Leo XIV

December 13, 2025

9:00 am - 1:00 pm


Adoration

Surrender Novena

Talk, Discussion

Holy Eucharist

Deliverance prayer

Dilexi Te focuses on the Church's mission to love and serve the poor, emphasizing that caring for the poor is inseparable from faith and is essential to Catholic life. The document explores themes of mercy, justice, and the suffering of Christ in the poor through scriptural and church tradition, highlighting both traditional and modern forms of poverty and urging action to change unjust structures.


St Patrick Parish, Stoneham


All are welcome


Giving Tuesday is a day that encourages people to give back in whatever ways they can. It presents nonprofit organizations with the chance to raise even more money than they would on an average day of giving, which is why many organizations create special campaigns to participate in this day of giving. Giving Tuesday takes place on December 2, 2025.


Won’t you consider donating to St. Patrick Parish? Please click on or scan this QR code.

THANK YOU.. THANK YOU.. THANK YOU….


The Society of St. Vincent de Paul would like to thank all of St. Patrick’s parishioners for their charitable support and generous donations at our November Food Drive. The Drive was an overwhelming success!! Our parishioners donated 371 grocery bags of food and paper goods, $1,765 in gift cards and $4,333 in monetary donations to help those in need in our Stoneham community. Thank you for your donations and may God bless you all.


Christmas Special

WHEN: Wednesday, December 3rd

TIME: 7:00 pm

WHERE: STEAM Room

Lower level of the Church


ALL ARE WELCOME!

For more information, please contact
the Parish Office at
781-438-0960

St. Patrick Grand Annual Update


Thank You! We are very grateful to the 291 parishioners and families who have thus far generously contributed $102,610. toward our goal of $130,000. The average family gift has been $353.


The Grand Annual—which is entirely for our St. Patrick Parish—is a necessary part of our yearly budget. Our goal is to have participation from 100% of our parish family!


All registered parishioners will have received the mailing from us. Please fill out the pledge card and return. If you are not registered but are part of our family, you can make a pledge by mailing a check payable to Saint Patrick Parish Grand Annual, to 71 Central St., Stoneham, MA 02180, sending a check from your online banking account or by clicking on the "Give" button.


We are so grateful for your generosity!


St. Patrick Parish
Holy Hour with Mary


Tuesday nights during Advent

6:30 pm - 7:30 pm

In the lower church

Adoration, Reading, Reflection, Silent Prayer and Confession. All are welcome!


December 2nd ~ Mary, the Chosen Daughter of Israel

December 9th ~ Mary and the Annunciation

December 16th ~ The Visitation of Mary

December 23rd ~ Holy Mary, Mother of God


CHRISTMAS GIVING PROJECT


Again this year, Saint Patrick Parish will be supporting the children and families of the Department of Children and Families (DCF) Metro North Office. The office assists residents of Stoneham, Melrose, Wakefield, Reading, North Reading, Malden, Medford and Everett and they currently need:


  • Arts & Crafts supplies (including teens)
  • Toys/board games
  • Hooded sweatshirts sweatpants (preteen/teen)
  • Make up, hair care, nail polish/care items
  • Clothing (esp. larger sizes such as 10-12, 14-16 and adolescent)
  • Sports items (footballs, basketballs, etc.)
  • Wireless headphones
  • Shampoo/body wash sets
  • Gift cards (Target, Visa, grocery etc.)
  • Diapers/wipes


Please return your unwrapped gifts to us on the weekend of December 6th and 7th. You will make the celebration of Christmas even brighter for children and families in need. Thank you for your generosity.

St Patrick Holiday Helpers


The Saint Patrick Holiday Helpers program is preparing for Christmas. During this season, the program strives to meet the needs of parish families with children who are in need, primarily providing toys and clothing. This program is successful in this mission through the generosity of our parishioners.


If you would like to adopt a family or donate to the Holiday Helpers program to help those who find themselves in need this Christmas season, monetary and gift card donations are welcome and very much appreciated. Checks can be made out to St. Patrick Family Ministry. Volunteers are also needed to shop and/or deliver the gifts. Please call 781-438-0960 the Parish Office if you would like to volunteer.



Book of Remembrance

Each year at this time we make our Book of Remembrance available in the upper church so you may inscribe the names of deceased loved ones you would like us to remember in prayer. If you are not able to be here and would like to add a name, please call the Office (781-438-0960) and we will do it for you!


BIBLE STUDY
Exploring the Gospels


Every Thursday

6:30 PM - 7:30 PM

St. Patrick Parish, Stoneham


"Ignorance of the Scripture is ignorance of Christ"
St. Jerome


Learn the Latest

  • Becoming Catholic / Adult Sacramental Prep

    Classes begin September 14, 2025


    OCIA, Order of Christian Initiation for Adults, (formerly known as RCIA) is a process by which adults come into our Roman Catholic Community. OCIA draws its model from the Acts of the Apostles whereby the early Church welcomed new members. What is more, OCIA is also open to persons already Catholic, but who may be interested in learning more about the richness of our faith.


    Is God inviting you or someone you know to take the next step in the journey of faith? All are welcome – those who are unbaptized, baptized in another faith tradition or baptized Catholic but haven’t yet received First Communion or Confirmation or just want to deepen their knowledge of the teachings of the Church. For further information, contact Diane McCarthy, 781-438-0200 or dianemccarthy@stpatrickstoneham.org.

  • Interested in getting more involved in St. Patrick Parish?

    We have so many wonderful ministries here at St. Patrick Parish. Maybe you feel called to look into one of them ~ Altar Society, Food Group, Prayer Shawl, Lector at weekend or daily Masses, Eucharistic Minister, Adult Choir, Pastoral Visitor, St. Vincent de Paul Society, Sacristan, just to name a few. Please contact the Parish Office at 781-438-0960 for more information.


    Also, for those who are unable to attend Mass, each weekend one Mass is recorded and then broadcast on Stoneham TV during the following week. Mass is aired on the Public Channel. (Public Access Channels: Comcast Ch. 9, RCN Ch. 3, Verizon Ch. 34) at the following times:


    Wednesday at 2:00 pm, Sunday at 9:00 am,

    Monday at 5:00 pm, Tuesday at 9:00 am.


    Each new cycle begins on Wednesday so the past Sunday's Mass will air for the first time on Wednesday.

  • Important Note Regarding Scheduling Memorial Masses

    Memorial Masses may be scheduled for your loved ones by calling the parish office. You may choose a weekday or weekend Mass. Additionally, we offer a Communal Memorial Mass Saturday at noon, where several people will be prayed for together.


    Our large parish size means that dates fill up quickly.


    We recommend that you call the office well in advance of the particular date you would like to schedule.

  • Altar Flower Memorials for 2025 Masses

    Each weekend you have the opportunity to donate the weekend arrangement on the altar in memory of loved ones. The flower arrangement will be the one piece placed in front of the main altar. The name of your loved one will be placed in the bulletin for that weekend. The parish makes arrangements for the flowers. The donation is $75. Please call the parish office @ 781-438-0960 if you are interested in donating flowers for a particular weekend.


    Available weekends: June 29, July 27, Aug 17, 24 & 31, September 21 & 28, October 5 & 27, November 2 & 23.

  • Sanctuary Lamp and Bread and Wine Donations

    If you would like to sponsor the Sanctuary Lamp ($25) and or the Bread and Wine ($25) in honor of a loved one, please contact the office at 781-438-0960. The name of your loved one will be published in the bulletin.

  • Ushers Needed

    Ever considered getting more involved in the parish? We are in dire need of Ushers at the 12:00 PM Mass on Sundays.


    If you think you may be interested, please contact Diane McCarthy at 781-438-0200.


    Thank you for you consideration!

  • Thursdays with Jesus

    Note: Beginning June 19th, there will be no evening Mass


    We are excited for our New Testament Bible Study lead by Fr.Sijo. This is a wonderful opportunity for all of us to come together and deepen our understanding of God’s Word. Whether you are new to Bible study or have been reading Scripture for years, all are welcome to join. In this study, we will explore the life and teachings of Jesus Christ, the early Church, and the writings of the apostles, discovering how the New Testament shapes our faith and daily lives.


    This group will gather every Thursday at 6:30 pm for Bible study. Please feel free to invite friends, family, and anyone else who may be interested. We look forward to growing in faith together. God bless.


  • Separated and Divorced Support Group

    A group for people experiencing separation or divorce meets on the second and fourth Tuesdays of each month. The group focuses on the emotional, spiritual and practical aspects of separation and divorce. We will look at these topics through a Christian lens, taking note of the special considerations for Catholics, including the annulment process.


    The group meets from 7:00 PM to 8:30 PM in the Youth Room/Library on the lower level of the Parish Center. Please contact Diane McCarthy, Pastoral Associate and group facilitator, at 781-438-0200 or dianemccarthy@stpatrickstoneham.org for more information.


Sunday Mass Videos

Celebrate Sunday Mass on the Stoneham Public-TV channel (Comcast 9, RCN 3, Verizon 34) four times a week:

Sun: 9:00 AM ~ Mon: 5:00 PM ~ Tue: 9:00 AM ~ Wed: 2:00 PM
(Note: the televised Mass will be for the previous weekend)

 

Mass will be Recorded each weekend and available for viewing the following Wednesday. You can also stream the Mass from the St. Patrick's Parish Playlist. As new masses become available, they will be listed from newest to oldest. Daily Masses are also available on Catholic-TV.


Calendar of Events at Saint Patrick Parish

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7pm The Chosen

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7pm Separated and Divorced Support Group

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8:15am Women's Bible Study

6:30pm Thursday Evening with Jesus

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7am Men of Virtue

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7pm The Chosen

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6:30am Holy Hour and Happy Hour

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8:15am Women's Bible Study

6:30pm Thursday Evening with Jesus

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7am Men of Virtue

9

1:30pm Blessing of the Graves

10

7pm Mass of Remembrance

11

7pm Separated and Divorced Support Group

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8:15am Women's Bible Study

6:30pm Thursday Evening with Jesus

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6pm St. Patrick School Presents...

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7am Men of Virtue

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7pm The Chosen

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8:15am Women's Bible Study

9am St. Patrick School Open House

6:30pm Thursday Evening with Jesus

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7am Men of Virtue

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6:30pm SPYA Potluck Friendsgiving

25

6pm Separated and Divorced Support Group

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8:15am Women's Bible Study

6:30pm Thursday Evening with Jesus

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7pm Rejoice! An Advent Pilgrimage

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7pm The Chosen Christmas Special

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8:15am Women's Bible Study

6:30pm Thursday Evening with Jesus

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4pm Festival of Trees

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5pm Festival of Trees


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